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Ex Girlfriend?

Bill was only  24 when he came for a past life discovery session. He told me he was in a relationship with his girlfriend, Sue, for 3 years and had been living together for the last 2 years. They were very good friends but the romance had died long ago and he wanted to end the relationship but couldn't.  When he would try, she would beg him to get back together and though they had lots of unresolved issues in the relationship he couldn't refuse.  She had a very strong personality, he explained, and there was something he couldn't figure out.  He thought a past life regression could shed some light.

As we got into the past life regression, he was holding his abdomen.  "What is it?"  I asked.  "My stomach....it's so painful" he replied.  "I want you to detach yourself from the situation, as if you're just watching a movie, and tell me what's going on" I said, calming the hypnotized man down. 

This had an immediate effect.  He stopped holding his abdomen and said: "I'm giving birth.  It's a baby girl."  "Where are we?  What is your name?"  I asked.  "Ruth.  I'm 40, we're in Australia."  "What year is it?"  "Ah...1857, I think" He replied. "O.K. what happens next?" 

"She's too big.  O God! no!  I don't want to go!  Who will raise her?  Who will take care of her?"  I calmed him down, reminded him that it's only a past life, everything happens for our highest good, and asked him to try to point out the similarities to his relationships today.  He was silent for a few moments, then said he felt responsible for her, referring to his girlfriend, as if he had to take care of and nourish her.  He explained that she was kind of obsessed with him and didn't let him leave her.

We then did guided imagery, still under the hypnosis, to help him understand he is not responsible for her life in their present incarnation, that he did the best he could then, in the past life and that today he can let go of the Australian life trauma and make a decision regarding the relationship.  He was much more light-hearted when he left.

A few mouths later he called me, telling me that they had mutually decided to end the relationship.  They both have new partners they're very happy with, and they are much better friends now. 

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