Jealousy
Mrs. Morgan is a pretty woman. 45 years of age, wavy hair and warm
wise eyes. She has a 19 years old son from her previous marriage and
she has been married for 16 years now and has 2 more daughters. Her
husband loves her dearly and so does she.
So where is the problem?
She is very possessive. “He is handsome and popular. Every party,
social event, everywhere we go, the women are all over him. Like
bees around honey. It drives me crazy. He is a tour guide, always
surrounded by female fans who admire and even flirt with him. I’m
afraid he is not faithful” she told me. “Do you have any proof?” I
asked. “Not really, it’s just a feeling”. At a certain point she
offered to end the marriage because she felt she’s making both of
them miserable.
We decided to look into their past lived together, to find clues and
understand what is the lesson for today. I asked her to close her
eyes, take a few deep breaths, go down a flight of stairs and open
the door which is the portal to her past life.
She found herself up in the Swiss mountains, in a ski resort. A
married woman with a son, daughter and a loving husband. They enjoy
their vacation and how surprising, her charming husband get lots of
attention from the ladies.
Later on we found out he was a history
professor at the University of Geneva. She is obsessive over him.
She can’t stand the fact that he is nice and friendly to anyone who
approaches him. The wife harasses the husband, embarrasses him in
public and pushes him away. Their relationship turns sour. They
hardly speak to each other anymore. They sit in their living room,
each reads in their own book.
Eventually she dies due to a tumor in her stomach. In her higher
understanding after living her body she finds out her husband loved
her a lot and never cheated on her, although he had plenty of
opportunities.
I asked her what was her spiritual lesson. She said she had to learn
to trust him and deal with her obsession.
Comparing today’s life to her past life, she said her husband like
history and reads a lot about it. He is popular and handsome. Her
jealousy is mellower this time around; she is less vocal about it,
stuffs it in more.
Her lesson is the same, to trust and love and not let her jealousy
poison her relationship like in Switzerland.
When I woke her up she was shocked. She couldn’t believe she repeats
the same lesson, and doesn’t trust her faithful loving and loyal
husband. She left grateful and motivated to go home, open her heart
and successfully deal, in this life, with the lesson called
“jealousy”.
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